The Art of Living

All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on. - Henry Ellis

The art of living is more like wrestling than dancing.  ~ Marcus Aurelius

We have learned to fly the air like birds and swim the sea like fish, but we have not yet learned the simple art of living together as brothers.  ~ Martin Luther King

To improve the golden moments of opportunity and catch the good that is within our reach, is the great art of living.  ~ Samuel Johnson

The art of living lies less in eliminating our troubles but in growing with them.  ~ Bernard M. Baruch

The master in the art of living makes little distinction between his work and his play, his labor and his leisure, his mind and his body, his information and his recreation, his love and his religion. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence at whatever he does, leaving others to decide whether he is working or playing. To him he's always doing both.   ~ James A. Michener

For reflective questions on some of these quotes and more see 365 Quote Quest over the next few days.

Culture as human spirit

Culture, the acquainting ourselves with the best that has been known and said in the world, and thus with the history of the human spirit. ~ Matthew Arnold
 
No culture can live, if it attempts to be exclusive. ~ Mahatma Gandhi

One ought every day at least, to hear a little song, read a good poem, see a fine picture, and, if it were possible, to speak a few reasonable words. ~ Goethe 

- What do you value about several cultures of which you are a part?
- What song, poem, painting, words... have enriched you?
- How has culture been a source of strength and inspiration for you?
- What positive quality could you contribute to a negative culture?

Windows for Nurture

We seek an enlargement of our being. We want to be more than ourselves... We want to see with other eyes, to imagine with other imaginations, to feel with other hearts, as well as with our own . . . We demand windows.   ~ C.S. Lewis 

- Through whose eyes have you seen?
- Through whose imaginations?
- Through whose hearts?
- What windows have, and will you enjoy?

Being and Becoming

We are so obsessed with doing that we have no time and no imagination left for being.  As a result, men are valued not for what they are but for what they do or what they have, for their usefulness.   ~ Thomas Merton

Life, is not a having and a getting, but a being and a becoming.   ~ Myrna Loy 

- What do you do?
- Who are you as a person?
- What are you becoming?

Movement is Medicine

Those who think they have no time for exercise will sooner or later have to find time for illness.  ~Edward Stanley

Exercise is labor without weariness.  ~ Samuel Johnson

It is exercise alone that supports the spirits, and keeps the mind in vigor.   ~ Cicero

If you're asking your kids to exercise, then you better do it, too. Practice what you preach.  ~ Bruce Jenner

Get comfortable with being uncomfortable!  ~ Jillian Michaels

Movement is a medicine for creating change in a person's physical, emotional, and mental states.  ~ Carol Welch

The Most Efficient Pharmacy

Shipping is a terrible thing to do to vegetables. They probably get jet-lagged, just like people. ~ Elizabeth Berry

Let food be thy medicine and medicine be thy food. ~Hippocrates

Life expectancy would grow by leaps and bounds if green vegetables smelled as good as bacon. ~Doug Larson

The best and most efficient pharmacy is within your own system. ~Robert C. Peale

It’s bizarre that the produce manager is more important to my children’s health than the pediatrician. ~Meryl Streep

- Where does most of your food come?
- How much do you try to avoid processed foods?
- How can you try to enrich your diet and your health?

Winged Words

Words can be like X-rays if you use them properly -- they’ll go through anything. You read and you’re pierced.  ~ Aldous Huxley

For me, words are a form of action, capable of influencing change.  ~ Ingrid Bengis

Words ought to be a little wild for they are the assaults of thought on the unthinking.   ~ John Maynard Keynes

Deeds, not words shall speak me.   ~ John Fletcher

If you would be pungent, be brief; for it is with words as with sunbeams - the more they are condensed, the deeper they burn.   ~ Robert Southey

Broadly speaking, the short words are the best, and the old words best of all.  ~ Sir Winston Churchill

He who speaks without modesty will find it difficult to make his words good.   ~ Confucius

By words the mind is winged.   ~ Aristophanes

Do not be wise in words - be wise in deeds.  ~ Jewish Proverb

Sticks and stones will break our bones, but words will break our hearts.   ~ Robert Fulghum 

Tags: 10 quotes on the power of words

No Wealth but Life

Being rich is having money; being wealthy is having time.  ~Margaret Bonnano

Don't Gain The World & Lose Your Soul, Wisdom Is Better Than Silver Or Gold.   ~ Bob Marley

It is neither wealth nor splendor; but tranquility and occupation which give you happiness.  ~ Thomas Jefferson

Seek not greater wealth, but simpler pleasure; not higher fortune, but deeper felicity.   ~Mahatma Gandhi

Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants.  ~ Epictetus

The wealth of a soul is measured by how much it can feel... its poverty by how little.  ~ Sherrilyne Kenyon

If we command our wealth, we shall be rich and free. If our wealth commands us, we are poor indeed.  ~ Edmund Burke

There is no wealth but life.  ~ John Ruskin

To admit it is Superhuman

It is better to err on the side of daring than the side of caution.  ~ Alvin Toffler

To err is human; to forgive, divine.  ~ Alexander Pope

To err is human. To blame someone else is politics.  ~ Hubert H. Humphrey

If one is going to err, one should err on the side of liberty and freedom.  ~ Kofi Annan 

To err is human; to admit it, superhuman.  ~ Doug Larson

The road to wisdom? Well, it's plain
And simple to express:
Err
And err
And err again
But less
And less
And less.  ~ Hiet Hein

Tags: quotes on making mistakes, to err, to recover, life, resilience

Unspeakable Dawn

The purpose of life is to fight maturity. - Dick Werthimer
 
You are only young once, but you can stay immature indefinitely.  ~ Ogden Nash

When grace is joined with wrinkles, it is adorable.  There is an unspeakable dawn in happy old age.  ~ Victor Hugo

Wrinkles should merely indicate where smiles have been.  ~ Mark Twain

The key to successful aging is to pay as little attention to it as possible.  ~ Judith Regan

Tags: quotes about aging, maturity, youth, life

We Hope and Know

Let us learn to appreciate there will be times when the trees will be bare, and look forward to the time when we may pick the fruit. ~ Anton Chekhov
 
There are only ten minutes in the life of a pear when it is perfect to eat. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson (I enjoyed such a pear as I compiled this list of quotes about fruit.)
 
A table, a chair, a bowl of fruit and a violin; what else does a man need to be happy? ~ Albert Einstein
 
Someone once threw me a small, brown, hairy kiwi fruit, and I threw a wastebasket over it until it was dead. ~ Erma Bombeck

I want to lose weight by eating nothing but moon pies, which have significantly less gravity than earthier foods such as fruits and vegetables. ~ Jarod Kintz
 
Autumn is the mellower season, and what we lose in flowers we more than gain in fruit. ~ Samuel Butler
 
One is wise to cultivate the tree that bears fruit in our soul. ~ Henry David Thoreau
 
Live each season as it passes; breathe the air, drink the drink, taste the fruit, and resign yourself to the influences of each. ~ Henry David Thoreau
 
You've got to go out on a limb sometimes because that's where the fruit is. ~ Will Rogers
 
Truth is a fruit which should not be plucked until it is ripe. ~ Voltaire
 
Sometimes our fate resembles a fruit tree in winter. Who would think that those branches would turn green again and blossom, but we hope it, we know it. ~ Goethe
 
- Are your branches green or barren?
- When have you experienced life in all its vibrant beauty?
- How can you cultivate the assurance that this vitality will return again?
 
Tags: quotes about fruit, recovery, life

The Aim of Life

The aim of life is self-development.  To realize one's nature perfectly- that is what each of us is here for.  ~ Oscar Wilde

What progress, you ask, have I made? I have begun to be a friend to myself.   ~Hecato, Greek philosopher
 
Make it thy business to know thyself, which is the most difficult lesson in the world.   ~Miguel de Cervantes

The only journey is the journey within.  ~Rainer Maria Rilke

Follow your honest convictions, and stay strong.  ~William Thackeray

Every day do something that will inch you closer to a better tomorrow.  ~Doug Firebaugh

-What factors have helped you to gain a greater understanding of yourself?
-How well do you know yourself?
-What can you do to continue your self-development?

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Something of Worth

The promises of this world are, for the most part, vain phantoms; and to confide in one's self, and become something of worth and value is the best and safest course.  ~ Michelangelo

Your worth consists in what you are and not in what you have.  ~ Thomas A. Edison

- What are some of the vain promises of this world?
- What, do you think, is your true worth and value?
- What can you do to enrich your intrinsic value?

Values and Priorities

There is no such thing as work-life balance. I don't know about you, but I only have one life and every moment is about living my values and balancing my priorities - wherever I am.  ~ Rhoberta Shaler

- What is important for you to achieve in your 'one life'?
- What are several of your dominate values which deserve expression daily?
- What priorities need to be balanced on a daily basis?

Joys and fears

Thanks to the human heart by which we live; thanks to its tenderness, its joys, and fears.  ~William Wordsworth

- When has your heart lead you to see the tenderness in life?
- The joys?
- The fears?
- What are you grateful for in your life?

Ingredients of the Good Life

Not life, but good life, is to be chiefly valued.  ~ Socrates

The best portion of a good man's life is his little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and of love.  ~ William Wordsworth

There are three ingredients to the good life; learning, earning, and yearning.  ~ Christopher Morley

The good life is inspired by love and guided by knowledge.  ~ Bertrand Russell

Suffering! We owe to it all that is good in us, all that gives value to life; we owe to it pity, we owe to it courage, we owe to it all the virtues.  ~ Anatole France 

I can get sad, I can get frustrated, I can get scared, but I never get depressed - because there's joy in my life.   ~Michael J. Fox

You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching,
Love like you'll never be hurt,
Sing like there's nobody listening,
And live like it's heaven on earth.  ~William W. Purkey

I love life because what more is there?  ~Anthony Hopkins

Sing a Song

A bird does not sing because he has an answer. He sings because he has a song.   ~Joan Walsh Anglund

-How likely are you to have a song in your heart?
-What are the obstacles to a personal contentment?
-What can you do to cultivate more cheer for yourself and others?

Connected with Everything

A myth is an image in terms of which we try to make sense of the world.

The myths underlying our culture and underlying our common sense have not taught us to feel identical with the universe, but only parts of it, only in it, only confronting it - aliens.   

But I'll tell you what hermits realize. If you go off into a far, far forest and get very quiet, you'll come to understand that you're connected with everything.   ~ all quotes by Alan Watts

First in One's Own

The only Zen you can find on the tops of mountains is the Zen you bring up there.

To live for some future goal is shallow. It's the sides of the mountain that sustain life, not the top.  

The world comes to us in an endless stream of puzzle pieces that we would like to think all fit together somehow, but that in fact never do.

The place to improve the world is first in one's own heart and head and hands.  ~(all quotes by Robert M. Pirsig)

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Turning One's Life Around

I had found a kind of serenity, a new maturity... I didn't feel better or stronger than anyone else but it seemed no longer important whether everyone loved me or not - more important now was for me to love them. Feeling that way turns your whole life around; living becomes the act of giving.  ~ Beverly Sills

-  How did Sills turn her whole life around and achieve a new serenity?
-  How can this perspective enhance one's life?
- What is an important lesson you have learned in your ongoing maturity?