Are parents short changing their babies and young children with the lack of quality communication time? Do they tune in more to their cellphones, BlackBerrys and iPods than their young children?
Jane E. Brody in a New York Times article believes that the very young are being adversely affected by the new lifestyle.
"There were no such distractions when my husband and I, and most other parents of a certain age, spent time with our babies, toddlers and preschoolers. Like this young mother, we talked to them. We read to them and sang with them. And long before they became verbal, we mimicked their noises, letting them know they were communicating and we were listening and responding. (And we’ve done the same with our four grandsons, all born after the turn of this wireless century.)"
Moreover, Randi Jacoby, a speech and language specialists writes, “Parents have stopped having good communications with their young children, causing them to lose out on the eye contact, facial expression and overall feedback that is essential for early communication development.
Young children require time and one-on-one feedback as they struggle to formulate utterances in order to build their language and cognitive skills. The most basic skills are not being taught by example, and society is falling prey to the quick response that our computer generation has become accustomed to.
Parents need to be reminded of the significance of their communicative model.”
As I read this article, I am reminded of the daily practice of reading to my two daughters in the evening as they grew up. For almost ten years we headed to the public library once a week to pick out picture books we could enjoy for the week. I believe this habit of reading to them, or they to me for about 20 minutes a day, carried immeasurable benefits as they formulated their literacy skills.
Any other thoughts about developing communication skills within children? Are there increased challenges today?



























